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Secure attachment at every stage means understanding what your child needs as they grow. In this deep dive, Dr. Sarah Bren uses Erik Erikson’s developmental stages to explain how parents can stay connected through toddler independence, school-age comparison, teen intensity, and repair over perfection.

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416. A deep dive into strengthening your child’s attachment as they grow: What children need from us at every stage of development

Family gathered around a child’s birthday cake, representing secure attachment across childhood development.

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361. Q&A: What can I do if my child is reading below grade level, but is resistant to tutoring?

Child reading with an adult in a library setting while practicing literacy skills.

When a child says reading is boring, the real issue is often frustration, shame, or skills that have not fully developed. In this Q and A, Dr. Sarah Bren and Dr. Emily Upshur explain how to understand school resistance, support confidence, and know when tutoring, incentives, or an evaluation may help.

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339. Q&A: What are the best toys and strategies to actually get my child to play independently?

Toddler plays independently with a puzzle book on a foam mat.

Independent play isn’t just possible—it’s essential for your child’s growth. In this Q&A, Dr. Sarah Bren and Dr. Emily Upshur share the best toys, activities, and strategies to foster self-directed play. Learn how to set realistic expectations, create a “yes space,” and encourage independence without guilt or overwhelm.

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305. Q&A: My 3-year-old is ok with sharing, but refuses to take turns – what can I do?

3 year old child playing a board game

What is developmentally appropriate for a toddler when it comes to sharing and taking turns and how to strengthen these skills.

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