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Marriage after kids can turn loving partners into roommates running on fumes. In this episode, couples therapist Eli Weinstein, LCSW, explains why parenthood reactivates attachment patterns, how “same fight” loops form, and what real repair looks like. Practical tools for mental load, resentment, and reconnection.

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384. Why parenting can shake up your marriage: How to fight better, repair faster, and stay connected with Eli Weinstein

Parents cuddling with two young kids, reflecting connection during the marriage after kids season.

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383. Q&A: Can you spoil a toddler by holding them too much?

Parent holding a toddler on a couch, showing comfort and co-regulation during clingy phases.

Can you spoil a toddler by holding them too much? In this Beyond the Sessions Q&A, Dr. Sarah Bren and Dr. Emily Upshur unpack clinginess, co-regulation, and how to choose between comfort and a small stretch. You’ll leave with nervous-system cues and boundary language that supports independence.

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382. Why good moms feel bad (and how to stop letting your emotions run the show) with Rebecca Geshuri

Parent and young child sharing a close embrace, representing secure attachment and emotional attunement.

Many deeply loving, capable mothers still feel overwhelmed, reactive, or stuck in cycles of guilt. In this episode, therapist Rebecca Geshuri explains how parts work and Internal Family Systems help moms understand their inner world, reduce shame, and respond to themselves and their children with more calm and compassion.

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381. Q&A: What is body doubling and how can it help my child with ADHD focus?

Child writing at a desk, representing getting started on homework with ADHD support.

What is body doubling, and why can it boost ADHD focus? In this Beyond the Sessions Q&A, Dr. Sarah Bren and Dr. Emily Upshur explain how a nearby “homework buddy” helps kids start tasks, reduce procrastination, and stay regulated, plus low-effort ways to use body doubling that build independence over time.

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